18 year old dates her biological father

An 18-year-old woman in the Great Lakes is dating her biological father for two years whom she had finally met after 12 years of separation. They are currently engaged, they're planning a non-traditional wedding that won't be registered legally and they're planning to have kids together in the future when they move to New Jersey where adult incest isn't illegal. 

"I was seeing my dad for the first time in forever but it was also like, He's so good looking!", said the 18-year old.

Her mother and father conceived her on prom night, they had a 6 month serious relationship but then broke up while she was still pregnant. They didn't have any contact until she was 3 or 4 years old, they saw each other on the weekends since he lived an hour away: there was constant argument about visitation. Her mother wasn't fond of him seeing her, she wouldn't even meet him half-way on the road. 

"He was living with his girlfriend. On the first night he slept on the couch and I slept on the floor, just to make sure that I was okay." she said.

Her mother had taken her Facebook privileges away and had conspicuously rejected her father's friend requests, once she got her privileges back she got into contact with her father. After chatting for a week they met up in person, then later on she went to stay over at her father's house for five days. That's when she found out she was romantically attracted to him. 

"He was wearing a pair of basketball shorts and a tank top and after I bit him I could see goose bumps pop up from his toes to his shoulders," she said. "Then he pinched my inner thigh and I got goose bumps."

After admitting that they had strong feelings for each other and discussing wether if it was wrong they kissed and they made love for the first time: she lost her virginity to him. He knew that she was a virgin so he told her if she didn't feel comfortable at any point to just tell him. She didn't feel weird at all, it actually felt natural to her as if she had just made love to a man she had been with for years. 

"I’m planning on a full-on wedding but it won’t be legally registered," she said.

Her wedding color scheme is black and purple, they're both going to wear converse tennis shoes.
He's going to wear a nice dress shirt, jeans and she's persuading him into wearing a bow tie, meanwhile she's going to wear a black dress. Her grandpa - from her father's side - will give her away on the aisle, while her best friend will be her maid of honor. 

"We’ve decided that most likely we won’t," she said. "I don’t want to give them any problems."

They're planning on having babies but they won't tell them that their father is her dad, since her fiancés parents want to spend time with their grandkids they're going to have to figure out how everyone will be known to keep the secret hidden. As for genetic problems she's already done some research and she found out that there's no risk on her kids having any genetic problems problems, if they did she wouldn't risk it. 

"I just don’t understand why I’m judged for being happy," she said.

She says that people should research incest and GSA so that they can understand it and see how often it actually happens. As an 18 year old you're considered an adult under the law and you're able to consent so she considers herself to be able to take care of herself. It's not an abusive relationship since she's fully aware of what's going on and she gives consent. She's happy with her fiancé and that's all that matters, once she moves to New Jersey she doesn't plan coming back to her hometown: she plans on starting a new chapter where no one knows her nor the relationship with her fiancé being her father. 

{In case you want to read the interview}: http://nymag.com/scienceofus/2015/01/what-its-like-to-date-your-dad.html